4. Courtship - No Long Courtship
Once the intending couple is ready all-round, long courtship is not encouraged because of the inevitable,inherent and unavoidable problem. Since the two are now engaged in love,they become emotionally excited in each other's company and in order not to endanger their spiritual life, it is advisable to let them wed in time. Many have fallen victims here, have sinned, defiled their bed and consequently did not bring God to the altar.