Warning Against Fornication
There are some young girls, may be secondary school students who have been on the lookout for whom to marry. They are ready to do anything to please you. They are chameleons, and as soon as they move into your house, they become something else. Many of the men who had fallen into their traps have reported their errors to us. Some of these girls would lure you into premarital sex. If you try it, that is express marriage. If you separate, that is divorce. Which portion of the Bible gave you the permission to sleep with women without marriage? If you have an agreement to marry her in oral contract, there is no problem with that, but the moment you began to sleep with her, a marriage is contracted. That is consummation of marriage. Wherever you go or whatever you become, that is your wife and you cannot push her away. When a girl is sent to school, the goal is for her to gain knowledge and be educated. It is not for marriage, but if you have fallen into her trap, there is no escaping living the rest of your life with her.

A young man or woman who wants to get married and who fails to inform the parents before doing anything has committed treachery. You know why? Supposing he or she was not born. Consider it, the mother that you do not count to be something was the conduit through whom you came into this world. A Christian mother would properly guide you with regards to the company you keep and would admonish you to face your studies, but carnal mothers would encourage you to do things that are contrary. Such a mother can only destroy your future. Your mission as a student is to face your studies squarely. Once you have divided loyalty to studies and marital affairs, you can no longer concentrate on your studies. The man running after you would push you to the end that you would have nothing concrete to show for having attended school and then forge ahead. Before you know it, he will make jest of you round about town.

Our girls should think properly about their future. If you are careless, men would take your future from you. He would finish his education and earn good salary but because you do not have any serious certificate, you would earn paltry sums. When you see a man running after young girls, he is cruel. Some men are spoilers and full of deceit. When they stop to spoil, God will spoil them. If you are one of them, repent and God will help you. This is the prayer I pray for you in secret. I pray this prayer for you and till death it shall be my prayer point because the parents who have given birth to these children want them to prosper but once you begin to destroy the products of another family,you are wicked! Let's even assume your mission is to get married. Supposing you have your own daughter whom you had sent to school, only for you to discover a man is trying to ruin your investment on her. That is what you are doing to another person's daughter. If you do not want damnation over your own house, please desist from destroying another man's house and God will answer your prayer.

Consider your action this way. You are a threat to the girl's parents' investment. Through your misadventure in her life,you could sow the seed of bitterness in their home. Her parents may send her out of the house; the girl may become homeless and that which you have introduced into her life at that tender age will rule her life forever. These are the calamities brought into the lives of some young girls. If our girls do not think deeply about it, they will become castaways.Our streets are filled with young women who are separated from their spouses. If you find any of our men running after women, it is a continuation of what they had done in the world. Such men are not honourable. If you fail to pray earnestly about the choice of a life partner, you are in trouble.